The Reason I'll Never be a Diplomat
Well, there are actually many reasons. The one that is currently sticking out in my mind is my inability to respond to passive aggressive folks in a non-emotional way. There is a teacher who puts me through my paces at the beginning of each year. It's a struggle to keep the students we share in compliance with their IEPs and it is also a struggle to keep her from slipping into her red zone.
It's one of those things that seemingly easy to mitigate issue is now the albatross around my neck. We've had an exchange in the main office that has caused me to shake and now my fight instinct comes out at the sight of her. I am having a difficult time wanting to interact with her and I just don't know how to let it go.
I think it might be time to learn how to work around this archetype.
1 comment:
my mom gave this to me a year or so ago... Perhaps you'd like to borrow it one day...? :)
http://www.amazon.com/Difficult-Conversations-Discuss-what-Matters/dp/014028852X
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